Imagine that 2011 can be the best year ever for your love life. Follow these commandments and watch your bond with your man grow even stronger
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1. Stop overanalyzing.
Alright ladies: This means not rereading a text message 12 times and wonder if you should reply now , in five minutes, or in two hours. All that energy could be spent doing something else..Like shopping.
2. Quit the toxic guys.
Bad boys may be intriguing (and usually hot),but do you really want to waste your time on an unemployed man-boy with commitment issues? Even Audrina finally ditched justin bobby!
3. Monitor you twitter TML.
Your followers really don’t need a play-bu-play of your budding romance. It’s the new way to over share and just as bad as posting 500 pics of two of you making out on Flicker.
4. Don’t let him take your iCal.
Do you really need to join his fantasy league when you couldn’t care less about (insert spot here)?And do you think he really appreciates the amazing opportunity of midnight twilight tix? you both have your own friends: Use them
5. Set a new sex goal for 2011.
We know you already call the shots in bed,but this is the year to make sure you’re getting off each and Every time .If you want a little extra attention, whether from your long-term bf or random hookup, tell him how it makes you when he-your-and you will never have a mediocre romp again.
6. B….him out when he deserves it.
If he has a case of stupid guy word vomit (like ” you have issues” or ”Stop overreacting”),tell him you Have no intention of dating someone who is so insensitive. He’ll respect you for speaking up, especially when it prevents a major blowout later.
7. Leave the games for your Nintendo wii.
We ‘ll admit it: sometimes it feels GRREAT to flirt with a random guy in front of your bf to get him Jealous. But even your guys is the jerk who’s neglecting you, he’ll just get at for playing games .Be direct and flat-out tell him the next time you Want some on-one attention
8. Forget that other girl friend who may not be into.
Unless she pops up on his speed dial or starts taking over your date nights, you have nothing to worry about. Instead, use that mental energy on something els – like your plan for seducing him into a quickie tomorrow morning.
9.Banish this question from your brain: where is this going?
You may have your love life scheduled like your overachieving career(sex on third date, flowers after one month, those , three small words after four), but you can’t map out a relationship. Cut him some slack when he does’t propose by date 10.
10. Step away from his face book profile.
Just because his status is still ”single” after a month doesn’t means he wants to breakup with you. Ditt for wondering about all those photos tagged of him and some girl you haven’t met. If he’s making plans to see week after week and calling you between, you don’t need a virtual reassurance of how he feels.
11. Lock your phone and change your passwords.
According to Great Male survey,50% of guys have read their girlfriends’ email or other electronic messages. Just in case your guy ever tries to snoop, make your privacy settings more advanced. And resist snooping yourself : He will eventually find out. Trust out. Trust is better then knowing he got chatted”hi” to some chick named Courtney four months ago.If you suspect he’s up to no good, confront him first before puling a Nancy Drew
12. Stop demanding perfection
If you want the world, he might not just be able to deliver. So maybe be reasonable and just settle for North America. In case you are already set to dump him because he can’t plan more then a day in advance, at least give him a fighting chance and make I list of all the good he’s done for you too. Then decide if you really can’t deal with some of the trade offs.
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